I did find this post: http://knownissues.livejournal.com/5
I also tried the suggestions they give to solve it, but they did not work. Same problem on different browsers and OS, so I tend to think it is all Livejournal causing this.
I continue to try and figure out a way of changing the default comment-setup for anonymous users, so it doesn't use Livejournal's standard, but I haven't found a way yet. Does anyone have an idea for a solution?
One option is moving stuff to Dreamwidth, another is to live with this until I (hopefully) find a solution, since the comments does show up after some time - just not consistently right away.
For now I am trying to keep the comms Delicious (https://delicious.com/sgkinkmod) updated with prompts.
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It settles down a few hours after comments are posted, but there is an annoying problem for new comments.
The problem only appears when you are anonymous, not when you are logged in. Unfortunately, as far as I can tell, it has nothing to do with the layout, and everything to do with Livejournal.